Choose Happy with Marie – Overthinking, Self-Doubt, People-Pleasing, Trust Your Gut & Self-Trust

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Choose Happy with Marie is a podcast for thoughtful women who look like they have it all together but feel disconnected from themselves.

If you’re tired of overthinking, second-guessing your decisions, people-pleasing, and wondering why you don’t trust yourself anymore — you’re in the right place.

I’m Marie — life coach and creator of the Choose Happy affirmation card deck — and I help women move from self-doubt and mental noise into self-trust, emotional clarity, and a life that feels like theirs.

For years, I thought the answer was to try harder, think more, and do everything “right.” What I discovered was that the real shift didn’t come from becoming someone new.

It came from learning to hear myself again.

Because the problem isn’t just overthinking.

It’s what happens when the constant noise, expectations, and old patterns become louder than your own inner voice.

Each week, I share honest conversations and grounded insights to help you quiet the noise, trust your gut, reconnect with yourself, and make choices that feel true.

This isn’t about toxic positivity or pretending everything is fine.

It’s about building self-trust one honest moment at a time.

Because when you learn to trust yourself again, everything begins to change — your choices, your relationships, your confidence, and the way you experience your life.

You don’t need to become someone else.

You need to come home to yourself.

Keep choosing your happy.

Website: https://choosehappywithmarie.com/

Episodes

Apr 11, 2023

13 min

Hello! It’s that time of year – time for us to start spring cleaning our homes and decluttering them, if needed! 
In today’s show, I’m sharing with you the positive affirmation I’ve been using every year to give me motivation to do the cleaning, and to empower me to finally make decisions on that clutter that I continue to postpone – every year I deal with some of it, and some of it well, carries forward to the next year!  I’m also sharing with you the book that helped set me free from being attached to items – especially those that don’t bring me joy. 
And, the top 3 tips I use to get the spring cleaning done! Come on in girlfriend, it’s time to empower you to get going on spring cleaning your home!
Episodes mentioned in today’s show:
Episode 6 | What are Affirmations and Why Positive Affirmations Do Not Always Work?
Episode 26 | What is ONE Thing You Can Do in the Next 3 Months That Will Make You Happy? [Q2 Goal Setting]
Choose Happy Affirmation Card:
”I choose to let go.  As I unclutter my home, I am uncluttering my soul.”
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
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👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie

Apr 4, 2023

11 min

Hi! It’s the beginning of the 2nd quarter of the year!  Time to set your Q2 goal!
In today’s episode, I will share with you how I used my vision board to help me identify a goal that I put in place last quarter, made it happen and how it positively changed my life. 
You can make positive changes to your life – achieving one goal at a time. 
Let the energy of Spring 🌱inspire you to take action! 
Come on in girlfriend, it’s time to make what YOU want happen for the next 3 months. 
Cheers,
Marie
 
Related Episodes:
22 | Goal Setting: Create the Life You Really Want (2023 - Quarter 1 check in)
17 | Trust Yourself To Achieve Your Goals
13 | 5 Questions to ask Yourself about Your New Year Resolutions BONUS: New Year Resolution Affirmation
3 | Design Your Choose Happy Vision Board
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
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👉 Want to learn more about Choose Happy, website:  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/
👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie

Mar 28, 2023

13 min

Hi!  So, you’ve cleaned up your morning routine of toxic habits (see Episode 24 for details), and now you’re ready to add some healthy habits!
In today’s episode, I’m talking about three healthy habits to improve your morning routine, including of course, a positive affirmation you can use to empower yourself to choose healthy habits!
Let’s do this girlfriend. Let’s spruce up your morning routine ⛅.
Cheers,
Marie
 
QUOTE mentioned in the show:
“Smile in the mirror. Do that every morning and you’ll start to see a big difference in your life.”
—Yoko Ono
 
EPISODES mentioned in the show:
24 | Do You Want a Choose Happy Morning? 3 Toxic Morning Habits to Stop Today
23 | Looking for Peace of Mind? ☮️ 5 Things You Can Do Today
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
👉 SIGN UP to receive FREE resources such as the Choose Happy Morning Routine Guide and Checklist and bonus affirmations (PDF instant download):  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/bonus/
👉 JOIN our Facebook Community for choose happy inspiration:  https://bit.ly/choosehappycommunity
👉 Want to learn more about Choose Happy, website:  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/
👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie

Mar 21, 2023

13 min

Hi!  It’s Spring!  I love the energy of Spring 😊.
Time for new beginnings, changing things up, including improving your morning routine!
Are you tired of starting your days in a reactive mode? 
In today’s episode, I’m talking about 3 toxic habits that many of us have in our every day life.  I’m bringing it to your attention in case you’re finally ready to ditch them as you choose happy for living your life. 
Let’s do this girlfriend, let’s ditch these toxic habits.
Cheers,
Marie
 
QUOTE mentioned in the show:
“To change your life, change your habits.”
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
👉 SIGN UP to receive FREE resources such as the Choose Happy Morning Routine Guide and Checklist and bonus affirmations (PDF instant download):  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/bonus/
👉 JOIN our Facebook Community for choose happy inspiration:  https://bit.ly/choosehappycommunity
👉 Want to learn more about Choose Happy, website:  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/
👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie

Mar 14, 2023

13 min

Hello!
Is it just me or do you also feel almost always distracted by whatever is going on … in the world, on social media, in the news … why are we constantly on our phones?   Are you craving to find peace in your every day life? I’m sharing with you 5 things I do in my life that helps me when I’m feeling anxious and overwhelmed.  P.S. I also do these things as a prevention too :) 
I hope this episode empowers you with tips to help reduce the anxiety you’ve been feeling lately. 
Marie
 
QUOTES mentioned in the show:
“Trade your expectations for appreciation.” [Tony Robbins]
”There is no greater wealth in this world than peace of mind.”
Serenity Prayer:
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
👉 SIGN UP to receive FREE resources such as the Choose Happy Morning Routine Guide and Checklist and bonus affirmations (PDF instant download):  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/bonus/
👉 JOIN our Facebook Community for choose happy inspiration:  https://bit.ly/choosehappycommunity
👉 Want to learn more about Choose Happy, website:  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/
👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie

Mar 7, 2023

14 min

Hello!
It’s almost the end of the first quarter of the year, how are you doing making progress with your goals?  Is your mindset standing in your way? If so, this episode is for you!  I reference Zig Ziglar and his thoughts on why some of us don’t have goals in place for living our life.  Come on in girlfriend, it’s time to get out of your way and get going on those goals! 
Cheers,
Marie
Listen to episodes mentioned in Today’s Show:
03 | Design Your Choose Happy Vision Board
QUOTE mentioned in the show:
“Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.”  [Michael Jordan]
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
👉 SIGN UP to receive FREE resources such as the Choose Happy Morning Routine Guide and Checklist and bonus affirmations (PDF instant download):  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/bonus/
👉 JOIN our Facebook Community for choose happy inspiration:  https://bit.ly/choosehappycommunity
👉 Want to learn more about Choose Happy, website:  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/
👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie

Feb 28, 2023

12 min

Hello!
Today’s show is the final episode of a four-part series on the Self Love habit for the month of February.  In this episode, I’m talking about the people pleasing habit that many of us have … whether we know it or not.  I’ll review the difference between people pleasing and being kind to others, and share 10 signs that you may have the people pleasing habit.
Come on in girlfriend, it’s time to choose happy!
Cheers,
Marie
Listen to Episodes Mentioned in Today’s Show:
Episode 18 | Ready Feel February LOVE? Start with Loving Yourself: Self Love Habit [Series]
Episode 19 | It’s Safe to be Messy: 5 Signs You Might Be A Perfectionist: Self Love Habit [Series]
Episode 20 | Why Do I Procrastinate? 3 Steps to Overcome It: Self Love Habit [Series]
Self Worth Affirmation in Today’s Show:
“My self worth is not dependent on the opinions of others.” 
“I will help others when it does not negatively affect me.”
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
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👉 JOIN our Facebook Community for choose happy inspiration:  https://bit.ly/choosehappycommunity
👉 Want to learn more about Choose Happy, website:  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/
👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie
 

Feb 21, 2023

12 min

Hey Girlfriend! 😊
Are you going on your second week putting off that THING you wanted to do but you can’t seem to find the time to do it? 
Do you show up to do it then find yourself making up excuses NOT to do it?  But, you know you WANT or NEED to do it? 
So, what’s standing in your way? 
Join me in today’s show where I walk you through 3 steps to overcome the unhealthy habit of procrastination. 
It’s time to Get Things Done! ⌛
 
Listen to Episodes Mentioned in Today’s Show:
Episode 19 | It’s Safe to be Messy: 5 Signs You Might Be A Perfectionist: Self Love Habit [Series]
Quotes in Today’s Show:
“It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.” (Lucius Annaeus Seneca)
“Procrastination is the lazy cousin of fear. When we feel anxiety around an activity, we postpone it.” (Noelle Hancock)
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
👉 SIGN UP to receive FREE resources such as the Choose Happy Morning Routine Guide and Checklist and bonus affirmations (PDF instant download):  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/bonus/
👉 JOIN our Facebook Community for choose happy inspiration:  https://bit.ly/choosehappycommunity
👉 Want to learn more about Choose Happy, website:  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/
👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie

Feb 14, 2023

7 min

Hey girlfriend! 😊
Do you sometimes feel that you have to get things done in a certain way? And if you don’t, you’re hard on yourself?
Perfectionism is an unhealthy habit.  It wants us go to a place that is not realistic or achievable.  It’s the voice of negativity.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing with you that it’s safe to be messy.  Living life is messy.  And, that’s OK. 
Let’s explore together 5 signs that you might be a perfectionist and what you can do about it. 
Come on in girlfriend, it’s time to choose happy!
Cheers,
Marie
 
Listen to Episodes Mentioned in Today’s Show:
14 | Find Your Happiness 🙂: Follow Your Passion
Quotes in Today’s Show:
“Love Yourself First and Everything Else Falls into Place” (Lucille Ball)
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
👉 SIGN UP to receive FREE resources such as the Choose Happy Morning Routine Guide and Checklist and bonus affirmations (PDF instant download):  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/bonus/
👉 JOIN our Facebook Community for choose happy inspiration:  https://bit.ly/choosehappycommunity
👉 Want to learn more about Choose Happy, website:  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/
👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie

Feb 7, 2023

11 min

Hey girlfriend! 😊
Have you heard about self-love and it makes you feel a little uneasy? 
Do you have images of women who love themselves as selfish?  And you see that as a negative thing?
What if I told you that the self love habit is exactly what you need to live a happy, fulfilling life?
Join me in today’s show where I introduce to a new series I’m doing for the month of February where we will review the self-love habit with topics about it in each week’s episode. 
Come on in girlfriend, it’s time to learn how to truly love ourselves ❤️.
Cheers,
Marie
 
Listen to Episodes Mentioned in Today’s Show:
15 | Do Something New 🆕This Year: My CrossFit Story and Positive Self-Talk 💖
 
Quotes in Today’s Show:
“To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness” (Robert Morely)
 
Want to Choose Happy for living your every day life?
👉 SIGN UP to receive FREE resources such as the Choose Happy Morning Routine Guide and Checklist and bonus affirmations (PDF instant download):  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/bonus/
👉 JOIN our Facebook Community for choose happy inspiration:  https://bit.ly/choosehappycommunity
👉 Want to learn more about Choose Happy, website:  https://choosehappywithmarie.com/
👉 Questions? EMAIL:  marie@choosehappywithmarie.com
👉 Connect with me on Instagram:  @choosehappywithmarie

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